Take Off the Mask: Becoming Who God Created You to Be with Ken Hobbs

What happens when fear, insecurity, and the pressure to appear strong cause us to hide who we really are?

In this episode of Renewing You Network, Jeffrey Paul sits down with Ken Hobbs of United Men of Honor for an honest conversation about the masks we wear and what it takes to become who God created us to be.

While this conversation takes a special look at the challenges men face, its message reaches beyond men alone. Whether you’re watching for yourself or thinking about a husband, son, father, friend, or someone you love, this conversation offers a powerful look at fear, identity, mentorship, relationships, and transformation.

Ken describes what he calls becoming a “poser”—hiding fear, insecurity, weakness, and struggles behind an image of having everything together.

Together, Jeffrey and Ken explore what Scripture says about fear and timidity, why so many men try to go through life alone, and the importance of mentors, “foxhole buddies,” and authentic relationships where we can be honest about what we’re facing.

Most importantly, they look at how the Holy Spirit, Biblical truth, and authentic relationships can help us take off the mask and become who God created us to be.

In This Conversation:

Why we put on masks
What it means to become a “poser”
Overcoming fear and timidity
Why mentorship matters
Why men often struggle to reveal weakness
Finding a “foxhole buddy”
The power of authentic brotherhood and accountability
The importance of having a safe place to share our struggles
The Holy Spirit as our greatest teacher and mentor
Moving from condemnation to transformation
Becoming who God created you to be

📖 Scriptures Discussed
2 Timothy 1:6–7
John 14:26
1 Corinthians 16:13–14
Proverbs 29:25
Romans 7
Romans 8:1